Are you offended?

To be offended means to be annoyed, hurt, or resentful because of another’s perceived insult. I find it interesting how this definition includes the word perceived. Perception refers to how we as individuals see things, it does not necessarily give the full picture of the offender’s point of view but paints how another’s reaction madeContinue reading “Are you offended?”

Choose Love, Love is a Healer

I found love in fellowship with the Holy Spirit, God gradually changed and improved my life especially my thoughts and view of myself. Only love, true love can have the ability to help you move from feeling like a nobody to a somebody. Through all the difficulties and challenges I have experienced; I have foundContinue reading “Choose Love, Love is a Healer”

Blinded by addiction

One of the most crippling things in life is addiction. Addiction can range from big to small things, it is described as a psychological and physical inability to stop consuming a chemical, drug, activity, or substance, even though it is causing psychological and physical harm. Unfortunately, with most addictions, it does not only affect theContinue reading “Blinded by addiction”

Healing from rejection

Merriam Webster’s online dictionary defines the word “reject” as to refuse to accept, consider, submit to, to cast off. Some synonyms to the word rejection include abandonment, forsaking, elimination, exclusion, and turn down. I am certain you get the full picture of what this word means. I do not think I know one single personContinue reading “Healing from rejection”

Dealing with disappointments

Disappointment is inevitable, it can happen regularly or periodically. We dream as individuals and sometimes those dreams become manifested as planned, other times less than expected or better than imagined. My question to you today is how do you deal with disappointment? How we deal with it reveals a lot in terms of our levelContinue reading “Dealing with disappointments”

Being a black South African man and its mental health effects- by Zinhle James

Being a black man in South Africa has to be one of the strangest things ever, it is a joy, and it is so refreshing when I see fellow black brothers do good and contribute to the greater good of our nation, lives, and our peace. However, being a black man in South Africa hasContinue reading “Being a black South African man and its mental health effects- by Zinhle James”